Trump Kisses a Female Staffer Before a Global Audience, Then His Remarks About Her Parents Take an Unexpected Turn

October 3, 2026

At an Oklahoma rally, Donald Trump spent nearly two minutes lavishing praise on a young woman who works for him.

Then he shifted to her appearance and her parents, and the moment grew strangely tense.

What began as a long shout-out to someone who has become a familiar presence in Trump’s circle evolved into something more awkward. Martin, a fellow Oklahoman who grew up in Ada, gave Trump another reason to single her out before the Durant crowd.

Trump’s water-tossing demonstration in Texas left viewers baffled and sparked another wave of scrutiny over his behavior. (Photo by Chip Somodevilla/Getty Images)

The president was campaigning Thursday, Oct. 1, on behalf of Republican gubernatorial hopeful Mike Mazzei.

The appearance was part of a broader effort to energize GOP voters ahead of the Nov. 3 midterm elections.

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Thousands filled the Choctaw Event Center, with some supporters waiting out the rain for hours. Trump eventually directed his attention to 31-year-old communications adviser Margo Martin.

According to The Washington Post, Martin regularly captures and shares behind-the-scenes footage of Trump and his appearances. He described her as a social media “sensation” and praised her loyalty before turning his attention to her looks.

Where Natalie Harp earned the label “Human Printer,” Martin’s “Human iPhone” hint suggests a far bigger role.

Trump said Martin was known for several things. He then pretended there was one thing he could not mention aloud because it might derail his political career.

“You can never say that a woman is beautiful,” Trump said, before doing exactly that. “But, I’ll say it anyway, she is a beautiful woman, inside and out.”

Trump then urged the apparently reluctant Martin to join him onstage.

“Look at this. Look at this,” he said. “And I’m not allowed … I’m not allowed to say she’s beautiful. You believe that? She is beautiful. But she’s beautiful inside and out, and she’s been so loyal.”

Martin greeted her parents from the stage with a coy, “Hi, Mom and Dad.”

That was when Trump drew a striking link between Martin’s looks and her parents.

“I understand why she’s good-looking, actually,” Trump remarked. “You know, I believe in the racehorse theory. Fast horses, right? Wonderful mom and dad. Thank you very much. Great job, Margo.”

Then came another moment that sparked conversation online.

A photo of Trump kissing Martin on the cheek circulated on social media, drawing a rapid wave of commentary.

“Holy s—t that man is nasty,” one commenter wrote. Another added, “Being horny all the time and having dementia is a bad combination.”

Another person quipped, “BLECH!!! WHERE’S NATALIE? SHE’S GONNA SCRATCH YOUR EYES OUT.”

Another observer focused on Martin’s reaction, asking, “Is that an engagement ring she’s wearing? She doesn’t look happy at all.”

For some viewers, the moment evoked a similar awkward encounter involving Trump and a teenager at a rally nearly a decade ago.

A resurfaced 2019 video shows Trump with college student activist Laura Schoeck at a Turning Point USA event. After Schoeck spoke, she began to leave the stage. Trump pulled her back toward him and leaned toward her cheek. Schoeck briefly leaned forward before stopping, pulling away and exiting the stage.

Martin wasn’t the only person Trump said he wanted to kiss. He also mentioned two male supporters who had offered kind words, then asserted he wasn’t attracted to them, despite their good looks.

Yet some critics focused more on Trump’s breeding analogy than the kiss itself.

“Margo Martin just got embarrassed. Trump: ‘Mom and Dad are here, hello Mom and Dad I see why she is good-looking; actually I believe in the [race horse] theory…fast horses, right,’” one commenter wrote.

This line is not the first time Trump has invoked his so-called “racehorse theory.”

At a 2020 Minnesota rally, Trump addressed a predominantly white audience with, “You have good genes.” He continued, “A lot of it is about the genes, isn’t it? Don’t you believe? The racehorse theory. You think we’re so different?”

Critics have frequently tied those remarks to eugenics-era ideas about inherited superiority.

Genetics have remained a recurring theme in Trump’s public remarks.

In August, Trump praised 16-year-old lifeguard Ryder Williams for rescuing a child. Looking at Williams, Trump told his mother, “It’s good genetics when you look at him; you can see.”

More recently, Trump lauded Texas quarterback Arch Manning, nephew of Peyton and Eli, saying, “If you’re going to go for genetics, you can’t do much better.”

Trump has also used genetic language in a far more controversial context.

During the 2024 presidential campaign, he discussed undocumented immigrants convicted of crimes and suggested murder could be “in their genes.” His campaign later said Trump was specifically referring to murderers, not migrants in general.

That history adds another layer to Trump’s apparent compliment toward Martin. This time, Trump connected his employee’s beauty to her lineage and invoked his familiar breeding analogy. Then came the kiss.

What began as a broad tribute to an Oklahoma native quickly became something others on social media dissected at length.

Danielle Brooks

I am a staff writer at New York Beacon, where I focus on culture, entrepreneurship, and the emerging voices redefining Black America. My work highlights innovators, artists, and founders whose stories often unfold beyond mainstream headlines but shape communities in meaningful ways. Through precise reporting and thoughtful storytelling, I aim to document progress, challenge narratives, and contribute to a stronger Black press tradition.